One of the keys to having a resilient, long-lasting marriage is to do what you can to make sure your wife feels good about your relationship.
Here they are:
Focus on the benefits of marriage, not the day-to-day frustrations.
Show your wife the same traits that make you valuable as an employee: focus, discipline, reliability, devotion, loyalty, stability, intelligence, and flexibility.
Be determined to get better at this job of being a husband.
Learn from your mistakes, and don't get your eyes stuck in the rearview mirror of regrets.
Commit yourself to the mission and responsibilities of your marital job description and reassess your progress as you go along.
Next Steps
I help couples enhance their communications and enrich their intimacy by sharing faith-friendly, resilience-based principles.
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